Understand · Change · Grow

Develop a greater sense of balance through understanding your mind, changing your relationship with yourself and developing the skills to become your own therapist.

Therapy for meaningful, lasting change

Life’s difficulties can leave us feeling stuck in unhelpful patterns. Understanding these patterns can help you find new ways of navigating challenges — with greater wisdom, courage and a caring commitment to yourself.

Rediscover a sense of wellbeing after difficult life experiences, prolonged stress or mental health difficulties.

Develop greater emotional safety, stability and confidence, particularly if these have felt out of reach.

Move beyond managing symptoms — understand what drives your difficulties and develop the skills to respond differently, both now and in the future.

I am Dr Asmita Palmer, a Chartered Clinical Psychologist with over 20 years’ experience

I specialise in Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) and Compassion Focused Therapy (CFT), helping people overcome common mental health difficulties.

I have worked in two national specialist services for Anxiety Disorders, where I specialised in working with people with OCD. I also co-authored a treatment guide for OCD with colleagues. 

I can help with

Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD)
Intrusive thoughts, doubts, images or urges, with worry about being responsible for harm or failing to protect yourself or others from coming to harm in some way. 

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Anxiety
Anxiety can take many forms, including panic attacks, social anxiety, health anxiety, generalised anxiety and phobias. You may find yourself caught in cycles of worry, avoidance or heightened alertness that are difficult to switch off.

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Depression/Low Mood
Losing pleasure or interest in things you usually enjoy, struggling with motivation, becoming caught in negative thinking, or feeling hopeless about the future.

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Self-esteem & self-criticism
Struggling with self-acceptance, self-blame or harsh self-criticism, or finding it difficult to offer yourself the same understanding and compassion that you readily extend to others.

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Post traumatic stress disorder (PTSD)
Experiencing nightmares, flashbacks, intrusive memories or a persistent sense of being on edge following something traumatic that you have experienced or witnessed.

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Appearance concerns
Being intensely preoccupied with an aspect of your appearance, with concerns that can occupy a great deal of your time and leave you feeling distressed or unhappy.

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Meaningful change is possible,
even after many years of feeling stuck

It is never too late to address difficulties that have been affecting your life for years.

With commitment, courage and an understanding of what keeps your difficulties going, meaningful change is possible — even when longstanding patterns feel deeply entrenched.

You may have had good-quality, evidence-based therapy but have not achieved the change you hoped for.

Sometimes, the difference comes down to finding the right therapist and an approach that makes sense to you — at a point in your life when you feel ready to engage differently with your difficulties.

My approach

Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT)

CBT can help you make sense of your difficulties by exploring the relationship between your thoughts, feelings and behaviours, and how these interact to keep you caught in unhelpful patterns.

Therapy focuses on understanding what maintains your difficulties and developing new ways of responding, helping you create meaningful change.

CBT has a strong evidence base for the treatment of depression, anxiety disorders and trauma-related difficulties.

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Compassion Focused Therapy (CFT)

Do you struggle to feel safe, worthy or deserving? Perhaps you are often self-critical or blame yourself, even though you recognise that you would benefit from treating yourself differently.

CFT can help bridge the gap between understanding something intellectually and truly experiencing it in a way that resonates emotionally.

Developing self-compassion can be particularly helpful when longstanding difficulties are rooted in trauma, shame, self-criticism or an absence of feeling nurtured and safe earlier in life.

CFT can help you develop a more caring and compassionate relationship with yourself, offering a different way forward when self-criticism and self-blame have become deeply ingrained.

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What to expect from
a course of therapy

Sessions last a full 60 minutes, rather than the more usual 50-minute therapy session, and take place securely online. This means you can access therapy without the need to travel, wherever you are based.

The fee is £150 for a 60-minute session. 

  • 1.

    STARTING THERAPY

    We begin by developing a clear picture of how your difficulties affect your day-to-day life and agreeing on the goals you would like to work towards.

    Together, we develop a psychologically informed understanding of what is driving and maintaining your difficulties.

    We then begin learning and practising new skills to help you respond differently.

  • 2.

    BETWEEN SESSIONS

    Each session, we identify helpful tasks for you to practise between appointments. These might include:

    • Experimenting with specific ways of responding or doing things differently.

    • Practising and applying the skills you are learning in therapy.

    • Gradually approaching situations you might otherwise avoid.

    The work you do between sessions is fundamental to achieving your therapy goals. It is through putting what you learn into practice in everyday life that meaningful change takes place.

  • 3.

    MAKING PROGRESS

    We typically begin with weekly sessions, gradually increasing the intervals to fortnightly and, later, monthly appointments.

    This gives you the opportunity to put your developing skills into practice, build confidence in using them independently and consolidate your progress.

    We regularly revisit your therapy goals, review how things are progressing and ensure that our work continues to focus on what matters most to you.

  • 4.

    PREPARING FOR THE END OF THERAPY

    As therapy progresses, you will begin developing your own therapy blueprint — a personal summary, written in your own words, of the key things you have learned and how you can continue applying them in the future.

    Setbacks are normal and to be expected. Your therapy blueprint will provide a resource to return to when difficulties arise, helping you recognise old patterns, draw on the skills you have developed and get yourself back on track.

    Ultimately, it is designed to help you become your own therapist and maintain your progress beyond the end of therapy.

Take the next step

Taking the first step towards therapy can feel daunting. Speaking to a few therapists can help you find someone you feel comfortable working with.

You are welcome to get in touch to arrange a brief telephone consultation, giving us an opportunity to explore whether I might be the right therapist for you.